An 80-year-old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45-year-old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.
The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It’s a crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you; ‘It’s a crow’.” After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son for a 3rd time, “What is this?”
This time, an expression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father, “It’s a crow, a crow!”. A little more time went by, and the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, “What is this?”
This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times, ‘IT IS A CROW!’. Are you not able to understand this?”
A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary:
“Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child”.
While the little child asked him 23 times “What is this”, the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times, yet when today the Father asked his Son the same question only 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.
So..
If your parents attain old age, do not be quick to criticize them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gentle and caring word, be calm, accepting, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today, say this out loud; “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered me with their selfless love.”
“They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in society today. I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will speak only gentle and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.”
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