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10 Zodiac Matches That Will Absolutely Make The BEST Couples

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Zodiac signs have been used for ages to look into our personalities, our strengths and our weaknesses, and regardless of how skeptical someone may be, they can often relate on some level to the traits associated with their sign.

The zodiac signs which tend to have the best relationships together are these:

1. Libra & Leo





Leo is well known for having intense pride and is attracted to confidence, a trait that Libra is renowned for. Anyone who is not afraid to speak their mind and stand up to Leo in a composed manner is a potential candidate. The calm demeanor of Libra complements the fierce nature of Leo to achieve a balance that is sought after in many relationships.

2. Gemini & Libra

Gemini shares the same sense of serenity with Libra and thus gives a certain degree of stability to the relationship. In addition, Gemini has a knack for communicating ideas which makes for a healthy intellectual exchange. They challenge one another mentally and almost always arrive to the same conclusions, which promotes harmony in the partnership. Both are elemental Air signs.



3. Aquarius & Aries

Aries and Aquarius are known to have exciting but also stressful relationships since they innately have high energy levels. Unlike most, they go well together and naturally support each other due to their compatibility. Aries’ determination coupled with Aquarius’ vision make it quite easy for them to achieve their goals, a combo envied by many. Both thrive in creativity and have no fear in taking the road less traveled.

4. Aries & Cancer

A classic example of opposites attract, Aries is brave while Cancer is emotionally sensitive. Aries comes off as a tough person with a rock hard exterior but Cancer might be able to teach them a thing or two about kindness. In the same way, Aries can help Cancer discover strength from within. Both shall fill the gaps of each other in ways that will help them redefine their personalities.

5. Aries & Pisces

At first sight, one might not see how Pisces and Aries can come together but when it comes to romance, they’re a perfect match. Pisces are known to be impulsive and happy go lucky, with no regard to consequences. On the other hand, Aries is the determined type who will stop at nothing once they set their eyes on a goal. The one thing in common that they have is their nature to live in the moment with zero worries about the repercussions of their actions. Too much spontaneity in this Water and Fire union may be a problem especially when it comes to stability.

6. Cancer & Pisces

Both of these Water signs share the same intuition towards love and romance. Pisces and Cancer are equally emotionally sensitive and so they are bound to always care for and love one another. They are always careful to repay the love of the other immediately lest they seem too stingy or selfish. The spontaneous nature of Pisces and the ever-nurturing attitude of Cancer make for an everlasting bond of affection.

7. Leo & Sagittarius

There’s never a dull moment between these two Fire signs. Like the sun, both are spontaneous and dynamic and focus on living life to the fullest. They exhibit this zany energy in the relationship that is always noticeable and shall draw others to them. Bold and adventurous, they truly are a match made in heaven.



8. Taurus & Capricorn

This is a very understandable match since both Capricorn and Taurus share the same perspective towards living life. They are both reasonable and logical and this is good as well as bad. Good because this brings much of the stability that is required in a relationship and bad because they do not know when and how to relax. Both are often too serious, so much so that they forget to enjoy the little things in life.

9. Gemini & Aquarius

These signs share a fantastic mentally stimulating relationship. Gemini is an efficient communicator who never ceases to discuss ideas while Aquarius is a visionary who never runs out of them. They complement each other on a whole new level and building a healthy loving relationship is innate to them. The bond they share transcends the superficial need to have physical closeness as it is more about mental stimulation.

10. Scorpio & Leo

Leo and Scorpio when in a relationship are like the holy grail of perfect union. Needless to say, they just perfectly complement each other. Leo needs to be constantly reassured and adored while Scorpio is passionate enough to express such admiration. Both signs are very possessive of each other.

See Also: Your Ideal Bedtime, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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When You Love Someone, You Stay Loyal To Them

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When you truly love and are honest with someone, you’re never worried about them checking your phone to see who you’re talking to. You don’t cover your tracks by using fake names for contacts nor delete messages.

When you love someone, you don’t even think about downloading dating apps just to see how many matches you’d get for a quick ego boost or to wonder what it’s like to be single again. You don’t flirt with anyone no matter how ‘harmless’ you think it is.




When you love someone, you don’t let yourself get too drunk to think straight or lose all self-control. You don’t use alcohol or drugs as an excuse for cheating. You don’t become unfaithful just because you’re under the influence of whatever it is you’re taking.

When you love someone, you don’t just give out your phone number to people who are obviously interested in sleeping with you. You don’t act like you’re single or lie about your relationship status.

When you love someone, you stay true the agreements you’ve made together, and if that agreement is only being sexual with each other, then that’s what you do happily.

When you love someone, you don’t hit up your exes or your other attractive friends so you’d have a backup in case of a breakup. You don’t encourage or lead people to think they have a chance when you already know you’re in a relationship. You give your current relationship your all, doing your best to see it succeed.

When you love someone, you don’t do inappropriate things in front of them to make them jealous. You don’t call them ‘paranoid’ for being upset, when you know you were hoping to see their reaction to feel that they care for you. You don’t make them feel like they’re the lucky ones because you chose to stick with them for so long now, and you’re convinced you could do better.

When you love someone, you don’t have sex with the first person you see just because you had a small argument or misunderstanding with your partner. You don’t destroy a relationship built on trust just for a night of distraction or lust or even self pity. You work through the issues with healthy forms of communication.




When you love someone, cheating is out of the question. Be it physically or emotionally, it doesn’t matter. You don’t want to cheat on the person you love. You would never risk losing them just for temporary pleasure, instant gratification or a biological wiring for sex. The loyal love in your heart knows you don’t want to hurt your partner like that, and that honoring the verbal agreements of the relationship are most important.

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When you love someone, you don’t take them for granted. You give them the utmost love and respect that they deserve.

When you love someone, you stay loyal. And what does it really mean to be loyal? Here is what it means to be loyal:

  • Being loyal means keeping certain things private. Never say anything to embarrass your partner or put them in an uncomfortable position, especially in public.
  • Being loyal means being aware of your partner’s weaknesses, flaws and fears and giving them support to overcome them.
  • Being loyal means prioritizing your partner’s needs and considering them as important as your own.
  • Being loyal means being there for your partner no matter what.
  • Being loyal means staying true to your word, against any and all odds.
  • Being loyal means being sensitive and receptive to your partner’s feelings.
  • Being loyal means being 100% honest and 200% faithful.

 




The Eye You Choose Reveals A Secret Detail About Your Subconscious Mind

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“The eyes are the windows to the soul.”

You can learn a lot about a person just by gazing into their eyes. Often it is the most intimate and profound way of connecting with another. What we see, and what we prefer to see, can also contain hints about the inner working of our subconscious minds.

Physiologically, the function of our eyes is to see the world. The subconscious filters what our eyes see, and also projects what we’ve learned and associated with certain things before it reaches our conscious mind. In this fun personality test, see which eye you are drawn to and what it could mean about your personality.




Upon scrolling down to the image below, pick the eye that catches your attention instantly. It is the one which your subconscious first identified, just before your conscious awareness started to kick in.

1. Spiritual Hunger

Your soul seeks spiritual nourishment! You feel the need for a connection to the universe that is beyond the physical realm and it urges you to try new things and go on thrilling journeys. You should learn the art of letting go and pursue this passion.

2. You’ve Been Here Before

The knowledge from your past lives is passed down to you, much like a spiritual encyclopedia. Go forth and spread this knowledge and you shall be recognized by those in your community and maybe even the world.

3. The Healer

The aura you possess is that of a healer and it is shining brightly! Embrace this aura and watch your vibration rise. Make good use of your healing powers. The world needs you!



4. The Philosopher

You have been gifted with a mind full of wonderful ideas! You may stray and get lost more often than not but trust your instincts and walk the path that you feel is righteous. Keep going!

5. The Trickster

You know a lot more than other people but you keep it to yourself. You’re a mystery and this is what draws people towards you. Embrace who you are.

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6. The Old Soul

You have walked the earth countless times before and so your view of the way things are is different from what others see. You doubt yourself and your purpose and are likely less self-confident. You just have to work diligently and eventually you shall find meaning behind all of this.

7. The Night Owl

You are a warrior of the night and darkness is your abode. Whether it is night or day, you prefer the company of shadows. You’re the type of person who only shows what others want to see and hear. Never change! Keep going down the path you chose.

Sources:

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10 Reasons Strong Women Handle Relationships Differently

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I believe in strong women. I believe in the woman who is able to stand up for herself. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s back. I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.”

~C. JoyBell C.




Strong women don’t need saving. They are wired to look after themselves because they know full well that they deserve nothing but the best. Independence is ingrained in them as a result of years and years of battle. At a young age they have learned the hard way to never depend on anyone, nor ever need anyone. The world has been cruel to some of these women and yet they rise above the ashes like the heroines that they are at heart, never allowing misfortune to keep them down. Strong women are fearless, perseverant, bold and beautiful. You’d better keep the following points in mind if you’re the lucky guy (or gal) who gets to that strong woman yours. Just a little heads up on what to expect in your relationship. You’re welcome!

10 Insights on How Strong Women Approach Relationships
1. THEY DO NOT SEEK A RELATIONSHIP TO BE ‘SAVED’

Nope, growing up they realized no one is ever going to come to their aid – they had to save themselves. The only person who was really there for them would be staring right back in the mirror, as they get ready for another day. They’ve come this far on their own. They have never relied on anyone else, so why start now?

These women don’t have any kind of ulterior motive when in a relationship with you. Contrary to popular belief, they do not see you as a means to an end – some kind of way to be financially or emotionally stable, etc. There’s a certain degree of security in being with a strong woman because you don’t have to walk on eggshells just to keep her satisfied. No need to babysit her emotions or take home a grand income. You get both freedom and security in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t need a hero.

2. STRONG WOMEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT

These women have been through enough to know what they are looking for. They’ve identified their targets long before they set out for the hunt. Because of this, they approach relationships in a different way than those who are just playing around. Time is a luxury to them and so they do not spend it on lost causes; if they want you, you’ll know. And if not, then she’ll do you both a favor of telling you early on so as not to let time go to waste.

3. THEY SEE RELATIONSHIPS AS A PARTNERSHIP BETWEEN EQUALS

They do not look for a partner to get anything out of them; they look for someone who adds value to their lives. The last thing strong women need is someone who’s going to drag them down. Like men, they also feel the desire to add meaning to someone else’s life and value the concept of give and take in a relationship. They never ask for more than what they can give.



4. THEY HANDLE THEIR EMOTIONS WELL

These women most certainly do not need anyone to babysit their feelings. They are perfectly capable of handling their own emotions. Strong women uphold respect and grace and because of this, they are a lot easier to talk to during an argument. They are great listeners and are open to their partner’s perspective.

5. STRONG WOMEN FEAR NO CONFLICT

They would much rather face an issue head on than to waste time beating around the bush. They won’t ever charge like a raging bull or let their emotions get the best of them, but they definitely won’t retreat to a corner, either. The moment she detects some sort of misunderstanding between the two of you, she will not think twice about resolving it right away.

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6. THEY CONSIDER A RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM

A strong woman doesn’t seek to control nor would let anyone control her. On the contrary, she wants someone who grows and learns with her on a daily basis. She’s got places to go and people to see and that is why she can’t have anyone slowing her down. Strong women choose partners who will have their backs through anything, and would gladly do the same for them.



7. STRONG WOMEN DON’T GET JEALOUS EASILY

These women know the value of trust more than any other virtue. That is because they don’t hand it out to just anyone. They believe that a relationship is a relationship that has to be earned, and so is trust. And once she learns to trust you, never ever do anything to jeopardize that trust. Boy, it’s going to be hard to earn it back. Trust me on this one. If a strong woman trusts you, she doesn’t sweat about the friends you hang out with or where you are all the time. She’s got no time to be petty and worked up about the people you spend time with because she knows you and trusts you completely.

8. SOMETHING CASUAL IS NOT IN THEIR VOCABULARY

Strong women aren’t looking for hook-ups or booty calls that can get them through the winter. Oh no sir, they want someone who’s going to be there through every season; someone to tread the storms and droughts with them. They’re looking for a partner who complements them so they seek serious relationships more often than others. They seek their other halves; their soulmates and never anything less.

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9. A STRONG WOMAN SHUNS AWAY FROM NEGATIVITY

She’s been through a lot her whole life and so she’s only attracted to optimistic and uplifting people who will never put her down back into the dirt. In a relationship, do not expect her to tolerate negativity. She tries her best to stay away from darkness now that she has seen the light and has blossomed in it. She’s with you through anything, but constant complaints and toxic behavior might result in losing her.

10. STRONG WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN GOALS AND DREAMS

Don’t ever think that a strong woman needs you to give her life direction. She had all that figured out way before she even met you. She knows where she’s going and how she’s getting there and she will stop at nothing to achieve her goals. A strong woman wants you to have your own life, too – your own dreams and aspirations. And she’ll be there for you a hundred percent while you both have things you’re working towards.




She worked so hard to get her life together and so she only seeks out a person who also has a clear view of his/her own goals and dreams.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Strong women are all around us. They are beacons of hope and icons of strength and dignity. These women persevered against all odds despite being downtrodden and looked down upon. In a relationship, a strong woman knows how to balance her fiery nature with her grace and wisdom in order to avoid taking total control of the partnership. She might come on too strong at first but she’ll let you take the reins too once she gets to know you.
Being in a relationship with this type of woman is a luxury and should not be taken for granted. A strong woman can transcend a relationship to a whole new level and show you how extraordinary love can be.



40 Uplifting Quotes By Reggae Legend Bob Marley That Can Brighten Your Day

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Bob Marley (February 6, 1945 – May 11, 1981) was a Jamaican singer and songwriter who became an international music legend featuring the genres of reggae, ska and rocksteady. Starting out in 1963 with the group ‘The Wailers’ he created a unique and inspiring style of reggae that resonated in the hearts of millions of listeners worldwide.

His songs not only had a wonderful tune, but his messages through his lyrics were meant to pick up people’s spirits and help people see a brighter day. With more than 77 million record sales, Bob Marley is acknowledged as one of the most popular and successful musicians of all time. He also regularly expressed his deep love of God and his love for his oppressed brothers and sisters, whose hearts he hoped their music touched.

Here are some of the wonderful and inspiring words Bob Marley spoke during his compassionate lifetime:



1. “Don’t worry about a thing, every little thing is gonna be alright”

2. “Some people feel the rain. Others just get wet.”

3. “None but ourselves can free our minds.”

4. “One love, one heart, one destiny.”

5. “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”

6. “Love the life you live.
live the life you love.”

7. “You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”




8. “If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. … Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” (Guitar Chord Songbook – Bob Marley)

9. “Don’t Gain The World & Lose Your Soul, Wisdom Is Better Than Silver Or Gold.”

10. “Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”





11. “The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively”

12. “Love would never leave us alone”

13. “Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don’t complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don’t bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!”

14. “One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”

15. “Who are you to judge the life I live?
I know I’m not perfect
-and I don’t live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers…
make sure you hands are clean!”

16. “The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”

17. “I don’t stand for black man’s side, I don’t stand for white man’s side, I stand for God’s side.”

18. “The winds that sometimes take something we love, are the same that bring us something we learn to love. Therefore we should not cry about something that was taken from us, but, yes, love what we have been given. Because what is really ours is never gone forever.”

19. “Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery;
none but ourselves can free our minds.”

20. “He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”

21. “When one door is closed, don’t you know that many more are open”

22. “You say you love rain, but you use an umbrella to walk under it. You say you love sun, but you seek shelter when it is shining. You say you love wind, but when it comes you close your windows. So that’s why I’m scared when you say you love me.”

23. “Wake up and live”

24. “Herb is the healing of a nation, alcohol is the destruction.”

25. “Judge not unless you judge yourself.”

26. “Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you’re living?”

27. “The people who were trying to make this world worse are not taking the day off. Why should I?”

28. “Better to die fighting for freedom then be a prisoner all the days of your life.”

29. “You have to be someone.”

30. “Though the road’s been rocky it sure feels good to me.”





31. “The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.”

32. “My feet is my only carriage.”

33. “Tell the children the truth.”

34. “Get up, stand up, Stand up for your rights. Get up, stand up, Don’t give up the fight.” (Bob Marley – Legend)

35. “You can fool some people some times but you cant fool all the people all the time.”

36. “Overcome the devils with a thing called love.”

37. “The day you stop racing, is the day you win the race.” 

38. “You can’t find the right roads when the streets are paved.”

39. “My music will go on forever. Maybe it’s a fool say that, but when me know facts me can say facts. My music will go on forever.”

40. “Me only have one ambition, y’know. I only have one thing I really like to see happen. I like to see mankind live together – black, white, Chinese, everyone – that’s all.”

You are Loved.

See Also: 25 Quotes On Love, Life, Friendship And Peace By John Lennon